I was just writing a comment in a private group on FB. It’s a whole bunch of women talking about dating dilemmas, strategies, the good, the bad, and the ugly lol.
I think I’ve been through every dating scenario possible and I am finally, at age 48, beginning to figure it out. Well, hopefully lol.
I came to the conclusion that you have to throw yourself out there and try everything. Start by asking yourself, what is it that you are looking for? Another few things you have to think about are, is the timing right to get back into the dating scene? Do you still think about your ex? Lastly, and most importantly, are you happy with yourself at this present moment?
I found that unless I have myself together and that the rest of my life was fine tuned, I couldn’t date. Are you happy in your current state of life? That is so important. If something is off-key, then how could you possible date or go into a relationship with an open mind?
Right now I have never been happier with my current dating situation. If it works for you, go for it.
I was just looking at some pics from my facebook albums that were from over the years. I noticed at one point in my life that when I took the pics they were from the inside looking out.
Some really beautiful ones too but there was always a glare in the pic from the window that I was taking the pic from behind. I love nature and the beautiful sceneries that I use to live right in the middle of but never really got out there and enjoyed any of it.
There are reasons but it doesn’t matter now. What matters is that I am no longer behind that window looking out.
It took time for me to realize that it’s okay to step out from behind that window and get rid of the glare.
Well today was the day, I gave in to a pair of sneaks that were a little over my budget but hopefully will be worth the investment. I am on my feet all day long and comfort is soooo important to me. I invested in a pair of Allbirds sneakers. They’re called the Tree skippers. I got them in white and should be here in a few days.
Seriously, instead of buying crap lol its well worth it to invest in a great pair of shoes. All though I love my sketchers, I felt like trying out something new for a changes.
As soon as I get them and give them a test run, I will let you all know.
Never ever give up on anything you are out there trying to get. Whether it’s happiness, a job, love, a house, a car, a dream…..don’t give up.
You are reading this because it was meant to be. I believe in signs. I know it sounds corny but it’s true. I follow and believe in all the signs I stumble upon.
This is your sign and your push to keep going. Don’t stop.
You can achieve anything you put your heart and mind to. It is so possible it’s not even funny.
You want that dream job? Don’t stop thinking about it. Don’t stop dreaming about it. If you believe in yourself and your goal enough, it will happen. Have faith.
I know because I am living proof that dreams come true. There is still a little critiquing that I have left to do but ultimately I have achieved my goal. Now I’m on to my next goal….. eh it will happen but the time isn’t quite right yet.
I have the home of my dreams, the job that I’ve always wanted, the happiness that I never thought was possible. Boom.
It happened because I truly believed it was going to happen.
Please, don’t stop pursuing your dreams. It’s going to happen.